A few weeks ago, Huddah Monroe – some babe from Big Brother Africa one year like that (for those that do not know her) put that message on her snapchat and a lot of blogs picked it up and yeah there a lot of back lash from people over what she wrote.
So I will be playing devil’s advocate today, I’m on the fence on this one.
So let me start with the message from bearer first:
Like my colleague said, let’s assume this was coming from a normal person (oh well Huddah is not your average person if you know what I mean), this message is too vulgar, how can you say, “once the vagina is used to the Dick” Never get too comfortable with a dick- Like what kind of a person says stuff like that, you should not be around young girls at all.
Now let’s talk about the person behind this message – Huddah Monroe – Rumour has allegedly that you sleep with rich fgly old men for the good things of life.
Rumour also has it, allegedly, that you are the reason a lot of men cheat on their wives ( this is me just imagining things). You cannot be sleeping with married men upandan and be giving advice like this and in the most vulgar and insensitive way. Saying you don’t want strings just shows that you have a problem and you are lonely most time and require attention. However, there is a Lil truth in one you have said and I will get to that. So please if you really want to
Saying you don’t want strings just shows that you have a problem and you are lonely most time and need attention. However, there is a Lil truth in one you have said and I will get to that. So please if you really want to advice people, work on your language and get your facts right and be more specific, except you have slept with all the men in Africa, then you can say 99 percent.
Note: Love is beautiful with the right person.
So on why I think she maybe has a little truth in what she is saying, however, the delivery was terrible. 30% of married people are truly unhappy, why: this has been on for a really time, before the age of us millennials, our mothers simply endured the philandering ways of our Fathers.
Social media has simply brought this to our faces and with little girls like this sleeping with older men or married men for money, why won’t she say stuff like this, these men even after all this won’t respect their wives at home, it’s terrible to say the least.
Yes, marriage is not for everyone but not all of us are willing to accept this truth including myself I still believe in the fairy tale of guy meets girl and they live happily ever after but in reality, there are fuck boys and slay queens everywhere willing to take everything from the slay princess.
There is the woman that will stay in a marriage even after different levels of beatings from the husband and there are men that will stay with the woman that torments them emotionally, to a point where they don’t even know who they are anymore.
Like that is not enough lesson for us single bunch, the pressure of social media wedding is there, everyone wants to marry into money and its not only us girls that do this, even the guys want to marry the girl whose parent’s has big bucks.
The guys are so confused, they claim they want a good girl but then they marry @sexylinda with long hair, makeup on fleek ( how much did you think it cost her to look like that, you will now marry finish be screaming upandan) and then put these set of people together = bad marriage, giving the babe above the mouth to say 99 percent of married people are unhappy)